I am interrupting all my work now and am going to write this statement, because I just realised this and feel like I should write it down before I lose the spirit in me. I might have mentioned something similar before but never before this detailed or in depth into the topic. I just suddenly have this thought of friends and then it develops deeper and deeper in my brain, soon, the whole picture came out and I thought it through. It's a rather sad picture but it's reality and I know we have to face it...
Let's get to the point of this blog: friends, no matter they are trustworthy or best friends, they will one day leave you or move on from you. I know it's sad, thinking about it is already sad, and I guess right now I am experiencing it. But then again, you do that too, you will meet new friends, you lose friends, you dump friends... It's not what we want, but it's something that happens in our lives that we cannot prevent, unless you shut yourself and your best friend in the same room, but then again, that will get boring. Sometimes you do that yourself, and you don't realise it, you might be hurting your friends' feelings but they never tell you because they understand everyone will grow up and move on, or maybe they just think you don't view them as a good friend. That is why you should treasure your friends and your time spent with them before it's too late and you regret not treasuring them.
Friends, they leave you or stay but have new friends and they spend their time with their new friends more than with you. If it happens, then it happens, it's nothing you can do, a bird must learn to fly and one day must leave its nest; your friend will leave you or move on, instead of being sad, maybe you should be proud, your friend is finally grown up and meeting new friends, be happy that of all those times, you've helped him and remember how he helped you. Some people go really angry or depressed they kill themselves or hate their friends forever, that's the negative way to deal with some shit like this; and maybe it's time for you to move on too and make new friends, who knows, this world is full of opportunities and mysteries, you will find someone worth keeping again. No one ever last forever, even couples, break up or pass away even when they are married. This world is a cruel place, friendship is a cruel thing, full of corruption, betrayal, lies and depression, of all those cartoons and stories about how wonderful friendship is, well, it's not totally fake, it's half true, the other half is screwed up. People around me always told me "In this world, we all use each other" and "There's no true friendship", even so they might not last, but there are true friendship and true friends never use each other for advantages, they help each other, build on each other. So true friends, ain't about keeping them, it's about what you learn from them and how you helped them. If your friendships were really great, one day, your friend will meet you again and say "Hey, oh my god, it's you" and that will be the happiest moment of your life.
You should never be stuck in a certain chunk of time, not the past, not the present, but the future; seek the future, look forward to it, meet new friends, do new things, be bold, be adventurous, be awesome, because no one can stop you if you believe in yourself; if there's something you really want to achieve or desire, grab it by the throat, and let the world know you won't stop until you get what you want.
Friends, are a funny thing, it's more complicated than time, yet funny and special, it's like a language we use to communicate but through relationships and feelings. Friends won't last forever, so think about it, because I myself have a lot to think about too. Don't be sad or scared when a friend leaves you, be happy and proud, and let yourself move on too.
"Happiness is Temporary, Sadness is Forever, Though It's Completely Upto you, how long Temporary lasts, whether that be a few seconds or your whole life." - Ryan Josifoski
